For those who love hand made lace.
http://www.tattersacrosstime.org/ tatting proficiency program, recommended by Anita Berry. There is a fee $50 for U.S. $85 Foreign.
http://www.ravelry.com/groups/tatta-tatt-tatters You have to join ravelry to see anything, but joining is free.
http://www.ravelry.com/groups/tatta-tatt-tatters/pages lists of resources--books, videos, etc.
http://www.youtube.com/user/lacenews#p/c/CE9D45AB796DFD40 She has more than 4 playlists of videos on tatting.
Patty Dowden recommends these. She says to start with #1 and work through them consecutively. http://www.youtube.com/user/kcabrera74?blend=1&ob=video-mustangbase K Cabrera has over 90 tatting videos.
Robin D likes this one. http://entrelanzaderas.blogspot.com/2010/10/clases-de-frivolite-tatting-lessons.html
These are some Lorelei found, for absolute beginners:
how to wind a shuttle: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q6fXjX8L3pc
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ljXBGDVwEIU&NR=1 Shows her working very slow with thick cord. You can see her flipping the knot.
http://www.youtube.com/watch/?v=BKYQ3EHJ1NU This one goes reeaalllyy sslloow, flipping the knot.
Flipping the knot, very slow: http://www.tattedtreasures.com/2011/08/the-dreaded-double-stitch/
The absolute beginner series: http://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1F0C9E52018DDB0B
A method of adding a bead: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EdAiMBmhPXk
Needle tatting, for those having trouble flipping the knot:
This is supposed to be the best on needle tatting, for absolute beginners: http://www.instructables.com/id/Learn-Needle-Tatting-With-My-Flower-Pendant-1/
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=73luorqg8v4 This video shows rings, picots, bars, closing rings, attaching to existing rings.
Inverted tatting: http://www.georgiaseitz.com/2004/joins/invertedtat.html
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